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The Quiet Power of Positive Reinforcement - So Much More Than Behaviour Management
Positive reinforcement is far more than praise or stickers; it’s how children learn, build confidence, and understand their strengths. Research shows it creates lasting improvements in empathy, cooperation, and self-regulation. When mistakes are met with calm guidance rather than punishment, children grow rather than withdraw. Positive reinforcement isn’t permissive; it’s structured, relational, and truly transformative.
Kelly Hutton
2 days ago5 min read


When Caring Becomes Too Heavy: My Story of Compassion Fatigue
In 2019, while caring for my disabled dad, raising two children, and running a nursery, I found myself completely depleted — though I didn’t yet know the name for it: compassion fatigue. This blog explores how caring too deeply for too long can leave us running on empty, how to recognise the signs, and the hard but necessary choices we sometimes have to make to protect our wellbeing, our families, and our ability to truly connect.
Kelly Hutton
Nov 135 min read


Living with PDA: It's Not About Control, It's About Safety
Discover why everyday demands can feel overwhelming for autistic children with a PDA profile. Learn how anxiety, not defiance, drives avoidance, and explore calm, connection-based strategies to support your child and yourself.
Kelly Hutton
Nov 64 min read


When They Need Us Less, But You Still Need Them.
As our children grow, so do we. Parenthood isn’t a fixed role, it’s a journey of evolving identity, shifting from hands-on care to gentle guidance, and learning to let go with grace. Watching Megan drive away, I realised she wasn’t just moving forward, we both were. This blog explores how parents can navigate the emotional transition of growing children, rediscover their own identity, and understand why nurturing ourselves is vital to nurturing them.
Kelly Hutton
Oct 304 min read


It All Adds Up: How Maths Shapes Thinking, Confidence and Future Success.
By Kelly Hutton Mathematical understanding is much more than just counting or adding up... but how is it? For many parents, me included, the word maths may bring a small internal sign, memories of confusing worksheets or lessons that made it feel like a secret code only a few could understand. It's a life skill which quietly shapes how we navigate the world, from budgeting our weekly shop and comparing energy bills, to understanding data, time, and even making confident caree
Kelly Hutton
Oct 244 min read


Weathering the Storm: Recognising Stress and Building Coping Skills
By Kelly Hutton A key component to parenting is knowing when you are stressed. If you have ever found yourself negotiating with a toddler about putting their shoes on in January, you'll know parenting can sometimes feel like a full-contact sport. My youngest, for instance, used to make every school run an exercise in emotional endurance, shoes? No. Coat? Absolutely not. Tantrums? Loud, occasionally airborne (the toys, not the child). And then there's the stage where an eight-
Kelly Hutton
Oct 165 min read


Teaching with Tech, Parenting with Presence: Finding Balance in the Age of AI
In a world of ChatGPT, Spelling Shed, and Sparx Maths, technology can make learning smarter — but only if we keep the human connection at its heart. This post explores how to use AI wisely in home education, from crafting effective prompts to navigating the “algorithmic forest,” and how simple digital detoxes can help families stay grounded, connected, and fully present while embracing the best of both worlds.
Kelly Hutton
Oct 95 min read


Understanding Disruptive Behaviour in Kids with Whole Needs Parenting
Disruptive behaviour isn’t a sign of bad parenting, it’s your child’s way of communicating unmet needs. From toddler tantrums to teenage door slams, behaviour is often a signal of frustration, fear, or a craving for connection. Whole Needs Parenting encourages us to look beneath the behaviour, stay curious, and respond with empathy. When we understand what’s really going on, we move from firefighting to building stronger, calmer connections.

Vanessa Coultas
Oct 23 min read


Finding The Right Words: Talking With Children About Difficult Topics
Talking with children about difficult topics — from illness to troubling world events — is never easy. But research shows that when parents speak with their children, not at them, it builds trust, resilience, and understanding. Using approaches inspired by doctors, this blog offers practical steps to start honest, gentle conversations. You are not alone — our community and 1:1 family support are here to help.
Kelly Hutton
Sep 253 min read


Why Literacy Matters: How Reading and Writing Shapes Your Child's Future
Strong early literacy doesn’t just help children in school; it shapes their entire future. From higher educational achievement to better mental health and job opportunities, the ability to read and write well has a lifelong impact. Backed by research, this blog explores why early literacy matters more than you might think, and how simple everyday actions at home can make all the difference.
Kelly Hutton
Sep 124 min read


When Worries Grow Too Big: Understanding Child Anxiety
Anxiety is a normal part of growing up, but for some children, worries can feel overwhelming. Around 1 in 6 young people experience anxiety that affects daily life, often showing up as tummy aches, meltdowns, or sleepless nights. Because anxiety and emotional regulation are closely linked, children who struggle to calm down can find worries harder to manage. The good news? With the right support at home and in groups, children can learn skills to find their calm and thrive.
Kelly Hutton
Sep 44 min read


Executive Function: Self-Monitoring and Impulse Control - A Neurodiverse Perspective
Self-monitoring and impulse control are key skills for children’s learning, behaviour, and confidence. This blog explores how these skills develop, how neurodiversity can affect them, and practical strategies to support all children. With 1:1 support sessions available online or face-to-face, I help families manage anxiety, behaviour challenges, and executive function needs through calm, non-judgemental guidance tailored to each child
Kelly Hutton
Aug 285 min read


Executive Function - The Hidden Skills Every Child Needs.
Executive function skills like planning, focus, and self-regulation are the hidden tools every child needs to thrive. This blog explains what executive function is, how it affects learning, behaviour, and confidence, and why some children find it harder to develop. With 1:1 support sessions — online or face-to-face — I help families strengthen executive function, manage anxiety, and build strategies that support both home education and school learning
Kelly Hutton
Aug 133 min read
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